Beloved Community
Beloved Community is a vision to create a compassionate and inclusive world where Love is at the center.
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A Roadmap for Beloved Community

What
Beloved Community is a vision to create a compassionate and inclusive society where Love is at the center.
Beloved Community has an intentional focus on growing an attitude of non-judgement, nonviolence, forgiveness, and mindfulness.
Beloved Community was first used by Josiah Royce and more recently recognized through the work of Martin Luther King, Jr.
As practitioners of compassion we seek to be agents of transformation in our communities where we are open and loving to one another, recognizing we need each other to be the whole body of Christ.
Why
We are surrounded by fear, disrespect, alienation, and othering. Our world is in deep need of reconciliation.
As Beloved Community we are followers of Jesus and his inclusive, compassionate walking with those who were lost, least and left out. Jesus modeled for us and invites us to this ministry of love by feeding the hungry, weeping with the grieving, welcoming the outcast and those we other, and forgiving the guilty.
This response calls us to be counter-cultural and we find ourselves walking on the edges of society extending care, kindness, and compassion.
When
Now! We are called to live out our faith, love and compassion daily. For some this call begins through the waters of Baptism. Regardless, it begins with each of us and our actions toward self, one another, and God’s creation.
For those living in Beloved Community, we are invited to step back and hold a mirror up to ourselves to recognize in the many ways we struggle and are broken and yet called to live out this love. We have Love within us already waiting for us to recognize its presence within us.
How
Becoming aware of the many ways our world—its people and creation—is suffering, both concealed and outwardly observed. The first step requires an attitude that recognizes our connectivity and oneness with all of life.
“If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”
1 Corinthians 12:26
“Compassion is an ‘inside-out’ movement. A radical change unfolds in us when compassion becomes a way of life, a transformation as far-reaching as an acorn growing into a tree. Compassion is the primary agent of transformation.”
Joyce Rupp
Boundless Compassion: Creating a Way of Life
“I could never extend a boundless compassion to anyone unless I know deeply what it means to hold myself in a compassionate heart.”
Christina Feldman
Compassion: Listening to the Cries of the World
Taking action to become self-compassionate—to actively comfort ourselves, Kristin Neff identifies these three core components:
- Self-Kindness vs. Self-Judgment — being gentle with yourself as you would a good friend in a similar situation. Awareness of those thoughts that become saboteurs to loving self.
- Common Humanity vs. Isolation — recognizing I am not the only one going through difficulties and shortcomings.
- Mindfulness vs. Over-Identification — acknowledging your suffering but not being consumed by it.
“To transform the suffering in our stories into a meaningful experience requires a courageous heart and a keen spiritual alertness.”
Gail Straub
The Rhythm of Compassion: Caring for Self, Connecting with Society
Developing deep listening to God, self, and one-another.
Love and compassion evolve as we heal and love ourselves as we see the goodness and light within that is shining in our neighbor. We hear this message in scripture. An example is the Parable of the Good Samaritan:
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind; and Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Luke 10:27
This is the work of the Beloved Community.
Joyce Rupp, Boundless Compassion: Creating a Way of Life (Sorin, 2018), pp. 26.
Christina Feldman, Compassion: Listening to the Cries of the World (Shambhala, 2005) (qtd. in Rupp 42)
Gail Straub, The Rhythm of Compassion: Caring for Self, Connecting with Society (Turtle, 2000) (qtd. in Rupp 63)
For more on Self-Compassion, see “What is Self-Compassion?” from Dr. Kristin Neff’s Self-Compassion Institute.
B. E. L. O. V. E. D.
B — Belonging
How do we create spaces where all feel they belong?
First faithful steps might be:
Covenant to create brave spaces — where we will interact with non-judgment, openness, and listening to what is said and unsaid
E — Equity
Are we committed to just/fair practices in our community life?
First faithful steps might be:
Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging (DEIB) and the role of education on the history of colonization and white supremacy
L — Love in Action
How is love showing up in our speech, service, stewardship?
Faithful first steps might be:
Self-Compassion, and self-awareness tools (e.g., Dependable Strengths, Saboteur Assessment, Values)
O — Openness
Are we open to being changed by others’ stories and needs?
Faithful first steps might be:
Listening to our story, one another’s story, and weaving our story with God’s story; active listening; spiritual practices to develop listening; creating and sharing one’s life journey through spiritual autobiography
V — Voice
Whose voices are heard? Whose are missing or silenced?
Faithful first steps might be:
Recognizing perspective shaped from one’s story; spiritual practices; mindfulness
E — Empathy
How do we practice listening with the heart?
Faithful first steps might be:
Mindfulness, prayer, and connection
D — Dignity
How do we affirm the sacred worth of every person?
Faithful first steps might be:
Recognizing the imago dei and seeing the Christ light in each other
Movements toward Beloved Community
Awareness
Seeing in the mirror both our brokenness and lovedness.
- Bias — explicit and implicit
- Listening to self, God, and one another
- Naming and Claiming God-given Gifts
- Recognizing Saboteurs
- Living aligned with Core Values
Attitude
Shapes behavior — and obstructs or constructs paths to action.
- Perspective
- Emotions and Feelings
- Components of Attitude — Affective, Behavioral, and Cognitive
- Shaped and Formed — Conditioning
- Listening
- Prayerful Openness
Action
Supportive Small Groups of Beloved Community
These communities are designed to support us to grow compassion of self, one another, and all of creation.
- Practicing compassion through prayerful listening, openness to growing self-awareness and self-compassion
- Covenant to each other to be a compassionate presence and be truth-tellers in love when we fall short. Becoming a supportive brave space to be who we are. Allowing others to see us as simultaneously both saint and sinner in need of forgiveness and love.
- A place to name the obstacles that get in the way of Beloved Community.
Accountability
Steps to support you to live into Beloved Community
- Identify your first faithful step
- Make it specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely
- Identify who will be your accountability partner — what you will find helpful and supportive as you seek to step into Beloved Community
- Consider what might become an obstacle for you to share with your accountability partner
- Name how you will celebrate achieving your faithful step